Never got a chance

I really hate when you sort out all the people you date and think Hey! I found someone that I really like. You spend time with them get to know them. They even go as far as asking you your status. Example hey what are we? are we like a couple? Then you are dating, then for some unknown reason it ends on there behalf. I've boiled my last relationship down to one reason. its called ( the old boyfriend lurking in the background syndrome). Cant anyone be strong enuff to move foward in life? Damn I guess i was just someones rebound. well back to the dating game.....